My goal is for you to feel supported, empowered, and strong — because you are. There are three primary facets we’ll focus on together in order to steady your compass.
Personal Growth Goals
Setting goals is the easy part – accomplishing them is difficult. We’ll set priorities, create reasonable goals, and discover what matters the most to you. With accountability, motivation, and a light shepherding you towards your goals, you’ll be crossing them off the list in a flash.
Money is intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. We all have deep-seated emotions around money. With a fresh outlook on how to spend your money, we can work through your emotions so money doesn’t manage you, but you manage your money.
Managing a High-Conflict Divorce
All divorces have challenging issues. However, a high-conflict divorce is particularly stressful. It can beat you down and make you feel even more isolated. The conflict seems to constantly bring forth all the negativity you are trying to escape.
My Divorce Empowerment Membership is designed to teach you how to tap into your inner strength and trust in your ability to manage challenging issues in the divorce. You will also learn how to “reset” yourself after the divorce. I help support you and help you recover from your high conflict toxic divorce.
My coach services and the Divorce Empowerment Membership will help you process your emotions, learn coping skills and emotional regulation tools This will reduce conflict and therefore the trauma of the divorce itself.
For couples with kids, the divorce is not the end of the relationship. Through the divorce process, spouses move into the role of co-parent, with the goal of working together to raise their children. Lillie Zhan offers support on how to be a good co-parent, and what to do and not do in this new role.
It is possible for couples to become great at co-parenting during divorce. With help through divorce coaching, we can work on creating a co-parenting plan that works for the parents and the kids.
I’m not going to lie – divorce is lonely, difficult, and incredibly draining, which is why I never want anyone to experience it alone. As a divorce empowerment coach, you’ll have the companionship needed to pull yourself out of a rut. I know how bad it gets, I’ve been there myself.
Intimidation, fear, and belittling shouldn’t have space in your mind. It drives disappointing decisions. Empowerment divorce coaching exists to provide the clarity to move forward with your new-found perspective and confidence.